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Dependency Decoded

Guidance for parents and families

14 stages

The dependency process, stage by stage.

Start at the stage you are in. Each one explains what is happening, what to bring, what to ask your lawyer, and the law the court is applying.

You do not have to read this in order, and you do not have to read it all at once. Most parents arrive somewhere in the middle.

If something is happening right now

Two things come before everything else.

  1. 01

    Ask for a lawyer

    You have the right to counsel at every stage. If you cannot afford one and you qualify, the court appoints one. Ask immediately — do not wait for a hearing date.

  2. 02

    Write everything down

    Names, dates, phone numbers, what was said, what you were asked to do. A written record is the single most useful thing you can build, and it starts today.